Re: 'That was the week, that was'Marriage counsellors tell us that the real danger signs in a counselling session are not arguments, disputes or disagreements. The real danger signs are rolling eyes.When one side makes a contentious point and the other side rolls their eyes or dismisses with a wave of a hand, experienced counsellors sit up and pay attention. The you-know-what is hitting the fan.Even though it may seem peaceful, with no obvious angry dispute or disagreement, the scatological stuff is hitting the fan and splattering all over the room.The eye rolling and dismissive hand waves are signals. The eye roller lacks sufficient respect to argue for the opposing side, thereby failing to dispute or persuade. Neither do they care enough to listen to identify the source of the grievance so that it can be cured. They don’t care and don’t respect. The next step is for each person to contact their divorce lawyer.The West is protesting. The Laurentian Elites are rolling their eyes and waving us off.Andy CrooksCalgary
